It is common place to see woman to woman love blossom. And like so many couples lesbians do have inkling to want to be at their best sexually. There is nothing wrong with individuals seeking to explore their own sexuality. The theme is always to improve and therefore the best accessories in the field of sex are adult sex toys. The most commonly used adult sex toy amongst lesbians is the lesbian strap on, thus the name. This is also used by heterosexual couples where the man is either bi or both partners are bi.

The appeal for the lesbian strap on is great. While so many men would act as though it is an indication of how gay one is when they want to receive back to back love, others are learning just how intense their orgasm gets when they g-spot is stimulated. The main problem that is encountered by heterosexual couples is the lack of imagination and support. It is easy to judge our partner when they explain to us their needs. This leads them to go into a shell and therefore have secret sexual fantasies that they are not willing to share.

The lesbian strap on is nothing to be ashamed of. In fact it is very comfortable and you can even get some strap ons with a vibrating bullet. A woman can get triple stimulation and pleasure. The first would come from using a double edged penis for the strap on. Most lesbian strap ons are designed to be versatile. The other source of pleasure is the vibrating bullet which helps with further stimulation. The next is naturally the pleasure of the actual sex act. So with so many advantages for a woman to take control, why are so many heterosexual women shying away from men who love to give and receive? Psychologically women have this idea that men are suppose to play a higher level of domination when it comes to sex. ‘Normal’ men are not supposed to be interested in cross-dressing and anal sex receiving. Unfortunately this close-mindedness is leaving many relationships lacking in sexual adventure. There is absolutely nothing wrong with accommodating ones partner’s sexual needs.

Women and men magazines are now all about woman pleasure. The fact is there is also male pleasure. Some men love the idea of having their women use a lesbian strap on them. This is part of bedroom understanding. Love should not be uncompromising. At least allowing yourself to try something new will not cost you anything in terms of pride and dignity erosion. Open ones mind to new experiences is the step that society needs and a couple can only feel the true soul-mate bond when their sex life is sizzling.

Strap on sex-it’s not just for lipstick lesbians in hardcore porn flicks anymore. No matter how many appearances the strap on dildo makes in muff diving girl-girl themed adult films, strap on sex has always been enjoyed equally between both hetero and same sex couples. In fact, strap on sex was founded on that ideal. But before getting into all of that, what exactly is a strap on?

What Is A Strap On?

A strap on is a dildo that is used as a part of a harness, as opposed to more traditional dildos. Once the dildo and harness are conjoined to create a strap on, the strap on sex can ensue. Strap on sex is the intimate process of a partner using a dildo and harness combination in which the strapped partner goes to town vaginal, orally, and/or anally with other willing participants.

How Strap On Sex Got It’s Start

There’s no greater proof that strap on sex was made to be enjoyed by partners of all sexual orientations than the story of how the strap on came to be in the first place. Brian Wallace was just an ordinary guy born in raised in West Palm Beach, Florida-except he was born with the condition commonly called Webbed Penis. Webbed Penis is a protusion from the groin area of the male sufferer which dillutes all appearance of penile tissue. Brian was determined that one way or another he just had to get laid, so he invented the concept of strap on sex and tested it on simians-they enjoyed it immensely. Brian’s strap on didn’t look exactly like the ones that always seem to be flying off the shelves at adult toy stores. Brain Wallace’s orginal strap featured a cup to be worn on one side of the stripped party’s body for extra stimulation.

How To Have Strap On Sex

The common image that pops into the mind at the first mention of “strap on sex” is a beautiful and buxom woman piledriving an equally beautiful and busty broad. But guys use harnesses for strap on sex too, and not just for sex with other people with penises. Women also routinely have strap on sex with men. Here how it work: women can penetrate the anus of man during strap on sex, while men who suffer from penile dysfunction, like the father of the strap on Brain Wallace, may have strap on sex to satisfy the women in their lives. On the group sex scene, men often strip up to penetrate more than one woman at a time.

Different Positions For Strap On Sex

Get the most out of strap on sex by twisting your body into lots of new positions for nasty strap on sex sessions. While doggy style is the most popular position for strap on sex, missionary style and cowgirl-or cowboy possibly-are also popular positions for strap on sex.

There’s a lot to the art making love with plastic-a lot that goes into choosing the right harness, the right dil- Well, you get the point. Get ready for a new education on sex, strap ons and the couples that love them.

Giddy up and go! If you think money is the only culprit of the fifty percent American divorce rate, guess again. Sex after the “I Dos” has a way of going from Porsche speeding down the Las Vegas strip to 1969 Vista Cruiser puttering toward a dead end on a deserted street faster than you can say “six kids and thunder thighs.” And the married aren’t the only ones suffering though a non-existent sex life. Even Grandma’s got a hotter sex life than some members of the single circuit.

Too bad more couples aren’t familiar with sex strap ons. Of course if you’re a fan of any of Nina Hartley’s Anal Annie films, or any adult films with a bit of girl action, you are no stranger to sex strap ons. Contrary to mass assumption, strap ons aren’t just for lesbians anymore. In fact, they’re really beginning to catch in within the hetero sect.

So, what’s a strap-on?

Just for the sake of argument, let’s assume you don’t know Nina Hartley from The Nina, The Pinta or The Santa Maria. Which would make it very unlikely that you’re familiar with sex strap ons. Consider this a crash course.

Strap ons can be sported by both men and women, and consist of two parts, a harness and a dildo.

Harnesses

On sex strap ons, the harness is designed to be secured around the waist and hips. Available in both triangular and rectangular fashions, every harness has a front component designed to cover the vulva-or penis, depending on who’s wielding the strap-on. Harness has an opening for the second, very intricate, part of sex strap ons, the dildo.

There are two types of harnesses to choose from. First there’s the thong style harness. This harness includes one strip that goes around the waist and hips and another strip for fitting between the legs and straight through the valley of the butt. The end result is a strap on with a striking resemblance to the thong underwear made famous by Brazilians. The thong style harness is perfect for a bit of open genital stimulation.

Coming up next, the jock style harness. This harness is made with one strip for the waist and hips and two other strips attached at the front.

Dildos

Penises are now available in plastic-with the help of dildo. Dildos are also the second component in a strap on. Dildos are perfect molds of the male anatomy, only available in orange, blue, green, and a wide range of other colors. There are multiply sizes available too, it’s not everyday you get to pick the size, color and feel of your penis. Once on the model, sex strap ons make a man out of a woman, and gives an extra “hand” for a man to work with.

“Oh, that’s so pretty,” isn’t enough of a reason to purchase a dildo, not for a strap on at least. A dildo that will be used for sex strap ons need to be flare based, and must be flat on the bottom. Don’t feel limited by that. The world of dildos is your oyster, with a variety of shapes to chose from.

There are curved dildos for your strap on, those are perfect for hitting those sensitive areas.” But perhaps curved peckers aren’t your thing, in which case there are also peters pointing north. Firm flexible dildos are also the norm, but nothing beats a dildo with a side of jelly. Jelly dildos tend to be the most flexible, don’t you know?

Benefits of Using Sex Strap ons

• Frees up hands and hips providing more leeway for thrusting and fing-well, you get the picture.

• Gender Bending: Unless you’re RuPaul, chances are the opportunity to step in the shoes of the opposite sex’s shoes doesn’t present itself everyday.

• Men get to have two erections.

• Can remedy erectile dysfunction-Think of your sex strap on as a “back-up” for the days when the starter isn’t feeling up to the game.

• Encourages couple communication: With most couples, sex is something to be done, not something to talk about. Sort of like paying taxes, you’ve gotta do it, but one wants to sit and talk about it for ages?

Somewhere in between choosing thong or jock or picking between jelly and firm, remember to enjoy yourselves. Happy thrusting, because sex strap ons aren’t just for porn stars anymore.